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Twin Flames

1. How Twin Flames are Made


I am beginning something new with this blog post, a video blog (vlog) series on the subject of Twin Flames!


Today, I begin with a discussion of how twin flames originate... and how they are differentiated from soul mates or two beings who are, quite simply, in love. 



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# Shanessa Ceplecha 2019-02-23 14:50
My twin flame died in car accident 5 months ago, it took us 15 years but we were finally in a very beautiful place of absolute unconditional love. I was truly tapped in a vibration I can't explain other than Gods love...I'm so very broken hearted and lost but I am sure I am a better soul because of him I am sure God will sustain me ...I was allowed to see the moment of his death as to maybe understand? I lost my teacher, bestfriend, my joy was life altering it was what people are not blessed with in 100 life times...I do not want to lose my sunshine he wouldn't want that... I am praying for my purpose how am I to help people .....what next...i heard it said and believe it true when the student is ready the teacher will appear...I'm praying for that guidance as I'm lost with such beautiful gifts and don't know which way to turn with them, ...shattered but holding to a deep faith that I have somehow always had. Thank you for sharing these bits of others stories helps so very much
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# Zingdad 2019-02-25 11:20
Hi Shanessa
What I come to see quite clearly is that the Twin Flame experience is very seldom (if ever) meant to be a love to which we can cling. It happens in our lives like a star suddenly going supernova in the night-sky of our consciousness. Suddenly our entire existence is lit up by an interaction with another that brings us untold growth, healing, transformation and awakening. And then, before we can even catch our breath, it is over. Leaving us reeling, confused and at a loss. But always transformed for the better.
I find no circumstance where the old say is more true: "It is better by far to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all".
My love and compassion goes out to you.
Reach for him in your meditations. But more importantly reach for the love of the Divine FOR YOU that you can surely find in your heart.
With love,
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# Tien-I 2019-03-12 22:52
Brother Arn,

We all hope you are doing well. I was moved by your comments to Shanessa. Truly it is like supernova star. "And then, before we can even catch our breath, it is over." As I read these words of your's and her Story, I can feel the energy and emotion of them. I will send all my love and energy to you and Shanessa in my next meditation. You are strong Brother Arn, very strong and kind. Love and Gratitude
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# Zingdad 2019-03-14 15:10
Your awareness, kindness and compassion moves me, my brother.
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# Tien-I 2019-03-14 20:57
Thanks Brother for the kind words. They mean a lot to me. Love and Gratitude
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# Lisa Hayes-Foley 2018-09-28 10:21
Hi Zingdad, thank you for this video. I have started on my spiritual journey. Met my twin flame through complete fate and have had the universe's approval through the relationship. We were, as you stated, each others mirrors. However, he left me 2 months ago as he felt he needed personal growth and wanted to take a solo journey. I still feel as though I am being guided by my spirit family towards my true path, but I also feel as though he and I will reunite at some point. I have unconditional love for him, something I have not felt with any partner in the past. My question is, how can we know for sure that we will be reunited with our twin flames? As much as I am being guided along my true path, I see the signs and symbols regularly from my spirit guides, there is always that piece of my soul that needs the connection with him, I miss that deep connection, I crave it almost daily. I am managing to move forward, I am getting on with my life without this seperation holding me back. But again, I can't shake the feeling that we will be reunited. Is it possible that I am being blinded by hope? Or do you think that my feelings about being reunited are valid. PS: I am also a fellow South African. Durbanite. Yours in light, Lisa.
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# Zingdad 2018-09-29 04:57
Hi Lisa
If this is a Twin Flame relationship then you cannot avoid being reunited. But I can't say when. I can't promise it will be in this lifetime even. Twin Flame associations transcend space and time. These are not contracts. These are in the nature of your essential beingness.
The hardest lesson with a TF is learning to gift them their complete independence as you gift this to yourself too. Having felt THAT love and connection, it is almost impossibly hard to do. But if you don't get this right the TF association becomes utterly toxic.
With love, Arn
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# Ihor Kopytko 2018-09-27 06:56
Good afternoon, dear Zinggad! I read that you are planning a meeting in New York and Los Angeles. Do you have plans to visit Ukraine, in particular, Kiev? We all very much like to see you here in Kiev!
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# Zingdad 2018-09-27 14:50
I have no plans like that, Ihor. But that doesn't mean it won't happen. I will go where my Spiritual Hierarchy calls me...
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# Teresa D Karr 2018-09-05 14:42
I am not sure who I am speaking to, My innerstanding of monad entity is personal,finding an opportunity to express them is secondary to a challenge of communicating with persons the significance of my personal development. The explanation you are proposing is not evident in my life. Your soul journey is fascinating and conflicts with a perception of my self. I thank you!
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# Zingdad 2018-09-05 16:13
Hi Teresa
In such instances I like to simply celebrate that we each have our own perspective. I have no expectation that my perspective should be identical (or even vaguely similar) to that of all the other unique souls in existance!
When your Truth conflucts with mine... you should trust yours, of course!
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# Hege Rørvik 2018-09-03 17:16
Beautiful explanation of twin flames, thank you!
Love&Blessings from Norway
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# Daya 2018-08-31 02:43
Thank you for the video about the Red Vampire and I knew it had left as the energies were so much better, even with the Deep State zapping us with chemtrails, DEW laser fires and psychotronic weapons. I feel I had a part in this change. I loved the twin flame talk too as it is true for me and mine. We do not have phys. contact but we are telepathic. He found me through LookingGlass technol. but it took me 2 years to remember him. That was 23 years ago and we have been connected ever since though not in the same phys. space. We have a mission. We agreed to hold on to each other's heart while he went into hell in the DSt/Nazi 4th Reich to learn about it. We have other work to do on this planet, but I thought you would like to know that twins can do amazing things through the heart and conquer the most evil of evils. We are proof. I am sure there are many others doing similar things. It is all about the heart.
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# Sora 2018-08-25 06:49
Zingdad. Will Dwaro do a vlog too? That would be so awesome!!!
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# Zingdad 2018-08-25 15:35
I just asked her and she said yes! So... it seems we are all in luck! :-)
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# Tien-I 2018-08-24 16:22
Brother Arn,

It just so happens that I am experiencing day 13 (Giving Gratitude: Create Yourself; Create Your Life), so I want to take this occasion to give my most sincere and loving Gratitude for All that you are sharing. WOW! I will anxiously await the next Twin Flame video. Q: Is your TF holding the camera? Gratitude and Love!
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# Zingdad 2018-08-25 15:36
Hi Tien-I
she is indeed holding the camera. Not only is she my Twin Flame, but also my camera-person AND my muse!
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# Tien-I 2018-08-25 21:44
Brother Arn, You are shining and glowing so very, very bright in this video. Although I mainly read rather than watch, I must admit that I can now see the benefits of your videos. It allowed me a brief window into your (and my) inner self that I must say was so sincere, loving, heart warming and just all out amazing to experience. Thank you so very much for sharing your personal joy, delight and truth with us.

At the side of every great writer/scribe, is an equally great muse/psychic, and in this particular case TFs as well. WOW!

Please tell your TF, Dwaro, that we are All so grateful, pleased and excited that you both have crossed paths once again in this timeline, for the greatest good of All. Gratitude and Love
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# Robyn Dana 2018-08-23 01:09
Beautifully expressed Arn...thank you for sharing your journey in this way. I would agree that each Twin Soul re-union is unique and we can only ever speak of our own first-hand experiences. Six years on, I truly understand that it is a process that is constantly unfolding, and for us there was never a question about whether we would be together or not. We had to be...there was no other choice for us.
Although parts of it were very painful for us...emotionally as well as truly is a magical journey, and we are so happy for you and your Beloved.
We are also very grateful to you, and I am sure you know...and now understand...why that is.
We look forward to more of your sharing.

Much Love
Robyn & Richard
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# Zingdad 2018-08-23 09:54
Thank you for your message, Robyn! I am so pleased to hear from you. And I send SO much love to the two of you!
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# Greg Margolis 2018-08-20 09:09
You shaved your beard!
You look younger, Zing :)
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# Zingdad 2018-08-20 09:17
At the age of 50 "you look younger" becomes quite sweet to hear. :-) Thank you, Greg!
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# isa 2018-08-19 18:23
hello, thank you for the video.

i was searching a lot about the struktur about soles and monads etc. there is not a lot out there. :) i got one information from my guide, but not the hole picture.
so i realy interrested in a picture/structure of how you see it.
thank you so much.
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# Susana 2018-08-18 23:55
Just to say that my face lights up exactly the way yours does when you're talking about you're twin.
Going to follow your blogs, as your stories caught my ears.
If you're ever planning to visit Portugal, it's a lovely country, please feel free to email me.
Thank you for sharing your experiences.
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# Joanna 2018-08-18 17:52
Great video spoken from the heart. So lovely to see the joy literally shining out of you when you speak of your TF union. Thank you for sharing this special connection with us - so beautifully spoken from your heart.
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# Joanne 2018-08-17 19:57
Thanks so much for your videos and messages. They are so enlightening and uplifting. Thanks especially to Adamu. I'm really looking forward to listening to the forthcoming videos on twin flames. Infinite thanks for your sharing. I'm so happy you plan to come to Europe. In Oneness. Joanne
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# Gavin 2018-08-15 22:54
Hello Zingdad,

How are you?

I have been following your work for over a year now and really find it helpful. The video today on Twin Flames, and the other on the Red Vampire, were extremely informative and uplifting.

My name is Gavin; I am Irish, and live in Spain. When you come to Europe next year I would be interested in attending.

One thing you mentioned, in the video on the Red Vampire, was teaching people to heal their own psyches.

I have read the information. It sounds good to me. I hope to get back to you (probably after your US trip) to organise a session.

Basically, I just wanted to make contact, thank you for the wonderful work you do, and tell you that I hope to be back in touch.

All the best,

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# Zingdad 2018-08-16 06:20
Hi Gavin
Please watch my newsletters for more info about my trip to Europe. I'm sure I will also be teaching Soul Re-Intergation there:
And we can crtainly do 1-on-1 sessions via Skype before then too:
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# Mike 2018-08-15 19:04
Hello Zingdad! Thanks a lot for all the information you share.
Regarding the separation phase of the twin flames which apparently is quite common I would like to ask.

a) Does this take place because of some negative entities (archons etc) that get fed by the immense pain the stayer or chaser feels?
b) Does it happen so that one or both twin flames find their balance and independence once again before coming into unity?
c) Or is it because one of the two counterparts is not ready for the intensity of the connection and prefers to run instead of dealing with the situation and the fear - pain they may experience.?
I'd love to hear your perspective on this topic. Once again thanks for your light and your wisdom, they are highly apprreciated :)
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# Zingdad 2018-08-16 06:32
Hi Mike
I can't speak authoritatively on other Twin Flame pairs. I haven't done major research on this. All I can really speak about at this stage is my own experience and that which Adamu has taught me.
But I'll answer your Qs as best I can:

a) Separation of TFs happens because it is their own divine will. They are two parts of a Monad that chose to enter this reality which is even called "Separation". Our souls are split into two before we incarnate at all in this reality... before any other entity can interact with us at all. It really is self-created. Or it was for us.

b) Yes, both flames must find their wholeness in this reality before they can ascend out of it. Meeting the Twin catalyzes the awakening.

c) When the two find the interaction to be very painful it is a symptom, not the cause, of being insufficiently self-loving and self-healed to be able to love this "self as another" which is the Twin Flame.

I hope this helps.
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