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8. Acceptance

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The 8th video in the "Adamu Speaks" series. In this presentation Adamu carries on from where he left off telling us HOW we might attain Unity Consciousness. He shares with us the first of the Six Sacred Steps, called Acceptance.


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Greetings my friends


We continue now with the discussion of the six sacred steps. Please make sure you have already followed the previous presentations of this series called Adamu Speaks as this presentation is a continuation that builds upon that material.




The first of the six sacred steps is called “Acceptance”. But, while acceptance is the first of the six sacred steps, it is so much more than just a step. Acceptance is both the portal and the path.


You see Acceptance is that which takes you from duality consciousness on this side to unity consciousness on the other side. Between victim-consciousness on this side and creator-consciousness on the other side. And this is why I say it is a portal. But because you will have to learn to LIVE in acceptance rather than just choosing it sometimes) it is much more than just  the doorway. It is also the path. It is crucially important, if you would rise above victim consciousness, rise above the dramas, and attain Unity Consciousness… that you fully discover acceptance within yourself and that you learn to live the way of acceptance.


Acceptance is an unbelievably powerful thing.


If you have not had lifetimes to master acceptance then it is going to take a good deal of practice and effort on your part to master acceptance now. Sometimes you will flounder and get it wrong. Accept that.  Accept that you are not “there” yet. Accept that you are on a journey. And accept too that you most certainly will get there if you stay the course. Which, of course, you must. Because there really is nowhere else to go but Home to the Oneness. And acceptance, as I have said, is the portal and the path that takes you Home.


The best way for us to learn about something is with our own experiences. So I will teach you about acceptance using your own experience as a vehicle. Please, therefore, play along with the following process.


To begin with, I will ask you now to pick a major drama in your life.


Complete the sentence:


“I will only be happy when…”


Think now of some major thing in your life that you believe needs to change before you can find fulfilment.


Pause this presentation and take a moment to come up with one such issue. When you have identified one such an issue and completed the sentence for yourself, you can continue with the presentation.


<pause now>


Good. So you have identified a drama in your own life.


Now we will walk a short road together. Let me tell you that the circumstance of your drama is EXACTLY what will happen to you when you hold the beliefs about yourself that you do.


If a particle of consciousness enters into life and has the experiences you have had and comes to the beliefs you have come to… then it will experience EXACTLY this drama. 


It can be no other way.


This is because your deepest beliefs govern all the choices you will make. Right from the circumstances of your birth, who your parents will be, how you will grow up… all of those formative experiences… right the way through to the things you think you are good at, the things you think you cannot do, the people you associate with… everything and I mean everything you have chosen and will continue to choose is filtered through your beliefs. And what you believe and choose… is where your life-energy goes. And where your energy goes is where you go. In short, my friends, life will always feed back to you the effects of your own deepest beliefs.


And when you have had a number of lifetimes in duality then it is an absolutely guaranteed fact that you will have built up many layers of beliefs that are about separation. You will have fear, pain, anger and loss built right into your belief system. And so life will feed that back to you. You will see multiple layers of dramas in your life right from the global to the national to the societal to the familial to the personal. All these will be playing out in your life constantly.


Now, you can engage with the dramas… you can keep wishing things were different from what they are… you can keep trying to make them different… but the dramas themselves will keep repeating itself on you until you come to change the underlying belief you are holding about yourself that is actually inviting the drama.


My friends, it is crucial that you understand this! Your drama is not a random thing that is happening to you by some accident of bad luck. You are creating it and inviting it and bringing it to yourself. And the means of the attraction is an element of what you believe about yourself.


And so THIS is what we are actually going to do here. The six sacred steps are actually a means of healing your belief. We begin by identifying the beliefs that you hold somewhere in the deep recesses of your mind that are causing you harm, and then we go to work healing that belief by replacing it with something that is infinitely more loving and empowering. And in this process you discover just how profoundly true it is that YOU are the creator of your whole reality. Because you will SEE first hand and in your own life-experience that, as you heal your belief so you whole world changes for you. Where, your whole life you have struggled, fought and failed to change things for the better because you have been wrestling with the drama… now suddenly you will find that the drama changes by itself as you change. Life around you heals itself as you heal your belief.


So that is what we are doing. But we cannot go to work on the problem while you are attached to a mis-identification of the problem.


Allow me to illustrate. If you looked in the mirror and the mirror showed you that your hair was all awry you wouldn’t try to change the mirror, would you?  Paint a neat hairstyle on the glass. Well the drama is like your mirror reflection. It is simply showing you with absolute clarity something that is going on inside your own psyche that you are not aware of. So there is no more point in trying to change the drama… the external circumstances… than there is trying to fix the hair of your mirror reflection.


What you want to do is to USE the mirror reflection to fix your own hair. And then as if by magic you will notice that the mirror reflection’s hair is fixed. So in exactly the same way you want to USE the drama to understand what is going on within yourself… then to change your own inner-landscape… and then, as if by magic you WILL see the drama change. Or fall away completely.


This is the principal.  So now you will understand that there is no point in getting upset about a mirror reflection. It is JUST a reflection. There is no point resisting it and insisting it must be anything other than what it is. The mirror reflection simply IS. That is what is in the mirror when you are as you are.


Your drama, in a similar manner, simply IS. And there is no point in getting angry, sad or resentful about it.  And so the first step, the liberating step, the step that opens the door and allows us to move on to actually doing some good and bringing about some real change…


Is to accept the drama.  Accept that this is as things are when you are as you are.


So now you are going to take a step that will seem strange and perhaps uncomfortable at first. To continue the mirror metaphor this will be akin to you simply standing still and LOOKING into the mirror. Taking a moment to just observe. You will be saying the equivalent of “THIS is how my hair looks right now”. Without judgement, without criticism. Just a simple appraisal. I am talking about ACCEPTING what is in the mirror.


So now please bring your drama back to your mind. But this time you are going to change the statement. This time you are going to insert your drama into the statement:


“I choose to accept that (whatever your drama is) is going on in my life right now as this is an accurate reflection of my beliefs”


Again, please take the time to pause the presentation to formulate your statement so that it correctly reflects your situation. Please do this. And please, this is important, say the statement out loud to yourself. Do that now.


<pause now>


Now how did that feel?  Strange?  Did it feel as if you were lying to yourself? Did it feel as if you were saying the words but not feeling them? Or did it feel oddly liberating and empowering


Friends, however it felt is really okay. You are on a journey with me. And we don’t need to arrive at the destination with the very first step. So please do not concern yourself overly with how you feel about that stament. Notice it. Accept it. Because all you need at this point is the statement that you have just made that you accept this drama. You see the degree to which you DON’T accept your drama is the degree to which it resides outside of you. Anything that is outside of you is outside of your control. You cannot create that which is outside of your control. You are a victim to it. So this is what we are doing now. We are accepting this situation. Doing so brings the situation home. The drama and its cause moves to inside of you. When you accept it, it becomes yours. When it is yours and inside of you then you can know that you have created it. Then you can create it differently. 


So do you see now how the first step, the most crucial step is acceptance?


There are five more steps and in those five steps we look at the process of actually brushing the hair in the mirror. But first YOU must completely accept.  And so this is the work you must do between now and when you watch the next presentation in the series. Please, I urge you, take your time. Take a few days or longer. Take the time to really sit with the drama. Say aloud to yourself that you accept the drama. Think it. Feel it. Allow the drama to show itself to you in its facets so that you can accept every single part of it. When you KNOW that you accept it as it is then you are ready to move on.


Moving on with the material before you are ready will simply not work. If you are not in acceptance then you are not creating. Then you are just reacting as you always have… as a victim who is just trying to avoid the outcomes of your own choices. Then this process will simply not work and you will get to the end of it and say “but nothing changed!” You will think the process flawed. All because you didn’t stay with the process of acceptance until you really got it.


So that, my friends if your homework. Please write down your statement of acceptance of your drama. Then keep repeating that statement of acceptance to yourself and see how the drama keeps presenting itself to you differently as you slowly move towards acceptance.


Notice how the drama feels as if it is moving from “outside” of you to eventually find itself “inside” of you. Notice how you feel differently about it. Notice that, even though the drama doesn’t necessarily change, how the way you feel about it does. How you become more peaceful and centred and calm.


This is the process of acceptance.


Acceptance occurs when you do not resist the drama. You do not require that it must be different.


Acceptance occurs when you do not judge the drama, nor yourself nor the other players in it. No one is wrong or broken. It’s just a drama.


Acceptance occurs when you release your attachment to life being different than what it is. This IS the way life is when you are the way you are. Life IS.


Acceptance occurs when you have moved beyond forgiveness to the point of realisation that, indeed, there is nothing to forgive.


You have chosen to take one small step in the direction of acceptance by choosing to accept one of your dramas. I salute you. This is the first step and you are now on the path.


Now, my friends, if I could host you all on a mountain-top spiritual retreat we could work with just the concept of acceptance for many years before the subject was even nearly exhausted. And you could, as I have indicated, spend many lifetimes in incarnated experience mastering acceptance. So today, in this presentation what I have offered you is but the briefest indication of what acceptance is and how it might be to live in acceptance.


Now it is YOURS to live this principal. To take this seed called acceptance and nurture it that it might grow and flower in your souls. Your goal is to learn to accept not just this drama, but all your dramas. Not just all your dramas but the very principal of drama itself. And not just drama… but all of Life. My dear friends – you will in due course get there. You will all come to perfectly and completely and wholly accept all of Life. And when you do, you will be magnificent. You will be a pure, bright-light being of infinite capacity and creative power. And that is what lies ahead of you on the path of acceptance.


Now before I leave you there are some things that I would strongly advise you to do at this juncture of the journey:


The first is that you must set some time aside each day for your spiritual growth. Some time to be in the NOW moment. To meditate. If you do not know how then there is help. You can be taught how and you can be guided. But take some time each day to centre and to listen to your soul.


The second is that you regularly take some time to take ownership of your life. This is time spent, either alone or with some trusted beloved other or others in which you talk or think about where you are going with your life. Your goals and aspirations. This is the time in which you learn about yourself and your dramas. When you set objectives for your healing and your growth. When you look back upon the path you have walked and assess how it went and learn for yourself which choices work and which do not.


It is most beneficial if you can join in groups of like minded souls for meeting and discussion. Find people that are on a similar wavelength to engage with that you might teach and learn together.


And with that my dear friends, I must now leave you for the present. Next I will address the second of the six sacred steps.  Intention. 


I love you with the heart of Oneness.


I am Adamu of the Monadic Entity of the Pleiadian Civilisation


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# Barb 2017-11-26 18:57
Hello Adamu; so I've listened to the "Acceptance" quite a few times and am finding myself changing what I'm accepting; wondering if others are going through the same/similar process; you'd think by now I'd know what I want to change/improve in my life but it seems to be proving differently; any thoughts would be appreciated
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# Zingdad 2017-11-28 09:14
Hi Barb
Acceptance is the never-ending journey. As long as you are in separation your perspective is limited. And as long as your perspective is limited there will be things beyond your comprehension. These things will challenge you and keep you in separation and, indeed, drive you into victim-hood if you do not practice acceptance.
So it is good that you are working on acceptance as you are. Keep on. And as you do, work also on self-love.
If you do these two things, acceptance of the other-self and love of the self, all else will take care of itself. If there is something else you need to be creating, clarity will arrive when it is time.
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# John 2017-09-27 20:17
Hi Adamu/Arn

This is wonderful! Thank you so much for sharing this so freely. I'm looking forward to my journey through and with the six sacred steps! Time to take control of my life!

You also mentioned that it would be good to meet with like minded people who are on the same wavelength as I am. This has been really a challenge for me since I started waking up a year ago. I have literally lost all my friends so it would be great to meet up with like minded people, but I haven't yet found any.

I live in the Southern Suburbs of Cape Town. Do you perhaps know of any people/groups around Cape Town who are on a similar journey with whom one can meet? I see you are also originally from Cape Town!

I really have been blessed by your website and by what I have read in 'The Ascension Papers' so far and I have only discovered your website a few days ago! 'When the student is ready...':)

Much love!
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# Zingdad 2017-09-29 17:20
Thank you for your message, John. I'll reply to you by email...
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# Tien-I 2017-08-18 12:52
Acceptance is One of the most challenging steps within the process for me, but one of the most liberating and rewarding. Sincere Gratitude to Adamu and Zingdad for the great gifts they share with us. It Is greatly appreciated and needed by many.
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# Zakalu 2017-07-25 03:11
i am separate from the source
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# Zingdad 2017-07-25 11:09
I am not in the habit of telling other people what is true for them, Zak, but I don't believe this is possible. We are all one with the source. We certain can FEEL separate and believe in the illusion of separation. That is how we get to be inside this particular reality - by believing in separation. And by healing that belief and coming to KNOW that we are One with Source and One with All things is how we leave this reality again.
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# Zakalu 2017-07-28 03:38
Hi Arn thank you for your taking the time to reply, much appreciated--sat with your comments for a few days and yes it seems to me that somehow I/we must be connected to the source/one somehow. Is human technology someones creation? Do I return to source through them? Seems having conscious spark allows for me to do it, especially considering your and Adamu's teachings. I do ponder 'are there some things beyond belief' as pertains to this 'reality'?...yes to be here is to have 'accepted' being separate from the one, so in many ways to me that is indeed the ultimate drama to reconcile, as from this drama all others are spawned. So to accept that I have 'believed' I am separate from oneness in a weird around about way opens up accepting all shortcomings/dramas/struggles etc., as that is the only way those 'dense' presentations could have become into this 'reality' interaction, thus creating awareness that there is other possibilities such as I am the oneness, and can return to what surely feels like home--
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# Zakalu 2017-07-14 03:44
hello, there is one 'drama' i wrestle with that is so deep through the core of all i can ponder as 'me'. it appears like a giant spear that penetrates through this body, this life, this earth so deep that i cannot put my finger on it's origin---some aspects of this feels almost akin to cryptonite to superman to use a metaphoric comparison. 'accepting' i feel i have allowed and can see that i am doing this, and accepting does quell some of the energetic projection, however kinda feels like a masking effect too---question to arn/adamu, what is your take on energetic interference like the superman metaphor? and in that stream maybe something considered a 'curse' or energetic targeting of some kind? and are these type of entanglements 'beyond belief'? did i make any sense? thank you for this forum to which i can grow and ask assistance--
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# Zakalu 2017-06-30 03:14
went back and revisited acceptance before doing the visualization #4 vid that arn/adamu just released --and wow felt release of deep gut energy, then today it shifted to like acceptance is like giving up, that is giving in to the diabolical agenda being carried out on earth. by accepting feels like letting this happen without action to stop, helpless...also like whats the use? nothing matters...crazy gamet of choices coming through--any thoughts on this? the release in my gut that i dont have to be in conflict was/is wonderful. nice to be reminded to apply acceptance to every situation now, i dont have to get involved in the drama/problem/situation---there is a freedom there too, still feel the give up thing though too--
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# Zingdad 2017-07-05 11:39
I really feel you on this, Zak. I have loooong wrestled with acceptance because of this very issue. Eventually, in my non-acceptance, I discovered I was just making myself angry, ill and depressed for no good reason. So here is how I have this one figured for myself: When I encounter something that seems "wrong" to me, I ask myself, "Is this something I am able to do something about?". If it is, I further ask myself, "Is this something that I am called to do something about?". If it is then I do something about it!
If it isn't then it is time to practice acceptance. Quite simply because, whatever it is, it is not mine to deal with!
And if I STILL find myself struggling with that, I ask myself, "Am I the wisest and most powerful being in All That Is?"
Obviously the answer is "No!"
So surely then, I can surrender this issue (whatever it is) to those who are wiser and more powerful than I? Surely they care at least as much as I do? And surely they know more than I do? And surely they are doing as they see fit and all is actually proceeding according to a divine-right plan? And this is all true irrespective of my acceptance. My acceptance is really just the doorway out of suffering for me.

Final point: Since acceptance is the first of the six sacred steps it is also the way to begin REALLY creating and fixing things. Rather than just impotently fulminating and harming myself.
So I choose acceptance. And in so doing I choose peace, happiness and wellness. And then I also get to be a creator rather than a victim. Sounds like a good deal to me!
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# Zakalu 2017-07-05 16:17
Hi Arn, helpful advise thank you for taking the time to respond...Can i really do anything about it? The system is designed to and does deny remedy so just keeps me in the drama as you say in the adamu disclosure msgs, and I feel best choosing to move past the dramas and find my peace that feels has been eons gone- so yes there are 'others' smarter than me who care right? and they are working to help heal right? so why do I feel I have/had to stop it, ego persona perhaps? Vengeance from this life and other lives? Can see by not accepting I am powerless forever responding to, being the victim, and I can see how this, from feels like doing it for many lives, has crept into all thoughts of self and interactions, that is I am without power and everyone/thing runs amok over me, never hearing me, rewarding me, accepting me! That said, do I accept myself? honestly can say no I don't accept myself, maybe by accepting what is outside will help me accept myself?---Acceptance is so much deeper this time around for me, the peace and joy is amazing, and then 'everything is a drama' so have to 'accept' everything seems overwhelming, so switch to macro approach yadda yadda, so much there and so meaningful yet dauntingly vast--still haven't moved on to review next lessons or new #4 viz lesson, not sure when that could be correct to do as of now.
grateful for your assistance Arn and Adamu.
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# Jack LaRocca 2017-06-17 04:08
I am pleased to be be in the actual moment of all your teachings.
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# Tobias 2016-11-03 10:02
Great Inspiration, thank you Adamu and Zingdad for everythink you published on your webpage
Just a few comments
- Can I just start with the next step, Intention, once I have arrived at a full acceptance. So it might take me many years or a life time to come to this point. So I might not find my life purpose in this life since it might take me so long to come to full acceptance.
- If I accept everythink, is there not a danger that I suppress my shadow. Mayebe I seem to accept but a lot of stuff is hidden in the unconscious.
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# Zingdad 2016-11-03 10:57
Hi Tobias
1. There are no hard and fast "rules" in spirituality. Only guidelines and pointers. But I would say you need to look at the situation you want to change, the issue you want to work on, and find acceptance OF THAT before you try to set an intention about it. If you are not in acceptance then you are a victim to it. Victims cannot create. And when they try they create incorrectly; they create more victim experiences. So find as much acceptance of the situation as you can and then move on to Intention.
2. I do not believe there is a risk of suppressing Shadow through acceptance. Quite the opposite. Acceptance is the way we integrate Shadow. Rejection, denial and resistance is the way we suppress Shadow. If you are working on acceptance then the hidden stuff in your subconscious will arise to the surface to be processed. When you are healing like this, then Shadow will bring to you all the following layers to be healed. Acceptance is the path Home, not the path back into darkness and forgetting!
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# jodasala 2016-03-03 09:55
My mother had dementia and would often stare at her reflection. At times she was frightened by what she saw because the reflection showed an aging and unfamiliar face staring back at her. After all in her mind she was seventeen and this could not possibly be herself in the mirror.

I watched her always confront her image with a different reaction and attending emotion. Only occasionally would the image she saw coincide with her current self image.

Mostly she was disconnected from her own image as reflected back to her. One can only imagine the gamut of emotions one would experience by just such a disconnect.

It occurred to me at the time that this is indeed the human condition as we perceive our individual lives.

It is a rare person who constantly sees all in his field of perception as an unblinking pure reflection of themselves.

It is my personal experience that recognition was my biggest hurdle. Seeing myself as co-creator of my experience and my experience as a perfect reflection of myself was a giant and most difficult thing to swallow.

Having looked with recognition in my own mirror I now seek to accept all I see without judgement and most of all without fear.

I have chosen the path of Unity and take joy in the sharing of the Journey.

Thanks to all who are sharing this great unfolding at this time and this place.

Thanks Adamu and all.
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# jldy 2016-03-03 09:54
So as long as I am Human I will remain at this level of advancement? Makes sense to me; to grow my way out of this realization!
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# Dason 2016-03-03 09:53
Heart says "YES" already on this path to wholeness. Synchronous, exactly to the moment.
Remembering the feeling of ease,trust,inno cence and how life flows naturally, joyfully. lovely appetizer! Thanks Adamu,Zingdad. Onederful.
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# AngelRising 2016-03-03 09:30
Synchroniciies abound for me throughout this reading. This is EXACTLY what I have been consciously working through recognizing that on a deeper/higher level I am already there. The inner paradox is profound yet easily understandable. You, however, manage to express these concepts beautifully. Thanks again!
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